I traveled every day from Carteret, NJ, to St. Mary’s High School in Perth Amboy, NJ, on the public bus service, the old number 62 bus, after I graduated from St. Joe’s grade school in 1953. Strangely enough, my old grade school is still going today that first started in 1932, but my High School has closed since 1979, after it had operated since 1923. I failed to make the freshman basketball team at St. Mary’s HS, because I could not make a lay-up. Instead, I became the manager of the team and the official scorekeeper for all the games. However, I played with a Carteret Park District basketball team for St. Elias Orthodox Church. However, I was successful enough for cross country and made it to the New Jersey state track meet in the mile, as a senior. However, I quit after the third lap since I was so far behind. I never ran again competitively. At St. Mary’s HS, I met a lot of new people, especially, the upper-class cross-country guys, since there was no freshman or JV teams. I was pretty good at math, so I let anybody copy my homework. I got introduced to the works of Shakespeare in my English class. One nun, Sister Joakim, wanted me to join the forensic league. I did, where I learned about public speaking and debating, since she also taught me now to correctly pronounce “th” at the end of words. My first speech was about the unanimous “Brown versus Board of Education” Supreme Court decision of 1954, that integrated all public schools in the country. That seemed odd to me, since all New Jersey schools seemed to be integrated. As a junior and senior, I was on the two-man debate team. As a senior, Ralph Giles and I won the New Jersey State Debate Championships. I could have gone to the national championships, but the state track meet was on the same day. I picked the state track meet and lost. I was also on the school newspaper as a reporter, especially about sports, so that as a senior, I was named the editor-in-chief of the St. Mary’s The Lion’s Roar. Our school newspaper staff got to go to Villanova, where the entertainment was a young Dick Clark from Philadelphia. I tried out for the school musical play, but they told me that I would be better as an usher. I took four years of Latin and two years of German, and my last class in math was Trig. I really began to love history as I did more research for my debate topics on farm subsidies and federal aid to education. I had to know both sides of every issue, since we had to debate on both the positive and the negative sides. That was a good lesson to learn. As a senior, I ran for Student Council President, but finished second, and became the Director of Social Activities. I even went to a couple of rock n’ roll concerts in New York City. What do you remember about your teenage high school years?
My early teenage middle school years in the early 1950s
I turned eleven in 1950 and twenty-one in 1960, during my happy go lucky teenage years. In the last years of grade school, we were all afraid that the Korean War would mean that we would have to go to war after our high school graduation, since we still had the draft from World War II. We had a classroom mock election in 1952. You guessed it, everyone liked Ike in our class. I do not remember if Stevenson got any votes or not. I tried to play basketball, but it was not like playing outside my house on Railroad Avenue with a basket attached to a telephone pole on a slanted hilly street. However, I played baseball with my friends, but once I reached 14, I was on my own. I remember playing the summer after eighth grade graduation, where I was the last one drafted in the Carteret Park League. I did not play much, and when I did, I struck out a lot. However, I had only one hit, but it was a home run. I always wanted to be a major league utility player, because I knew that I was not good enough to play a position, since I struck out so often. I considered it a success when I walked. Then, when I realized that Joe Nuxhall had made the majors when he was 15 in 1944, I knew that I would never be a professional baseball player. However, I made up my own fantasy MLB league with real baseball players. I listened to the Giants radio announcer Frankie Frisch, so when he went to manage the Chicago Cubs in the late 1940s, they would be my team for life. In the summers, I would hang out with Paul Sweda, when we were in grade school. I even went on vacation with his family one summer, since he was an only child also. He loved the Cardinals because of Stan Musial, and I loved the Cubs. Whenever either team was in New York, we would often take the bus into the New York Port Authority and go to the baseball games in Dodger’s Ebbets Field or the Giants’ old Polo Grounds, since there were three MLB teams in New York until I graduated from HS in 1957. However, Paul went to Carteret High and I went to St. Mary’s for High School and we gradually drifted apart. As I left St. Joe’s grade school, the pastor asked me if I ever considered going to be a Servite priest. I said that I thought about it, but I was going to wait until I finished HS. Did you enjoy your grade school experience?
My childhood memories of the 1940’s
I was a grade-schooler in the late 1940s in Carteret, New Jersey. The great World War II was just beginning when I was born in New York City, the greatest city in the world. The people there will remind you about it also. I was two and half years old at a funeral wake, when I heard, “The Japs have bombed Pearl Harbor! We were at war!” My early childhood was spent worrying about this war and my mother bringing me to buy meat with ration stamps. I think my first movie was Bambi. My mother and I moved in a big moving truck from New York City to Perth Amboy, New Jersey, so that my father could build war ships there, as we lived in an upstairs apartment. The great FDR died, Adolf Hitler died, the atomic bomb exploded on two Japanese cities, and WWII ended, all within a couple of months, when I six years old in 1945. My parents bought a house in Carteret, New Jersey, that was next to my father’s work as a welder at the factory of GATX, where he worked for over twenty years. We were the new middle class Irish immigrant family of the late 1940’s, as home owners, although we did not own a car. However, our daily routine was gathering around the radio in the living room to listen to shows and sports events on the radio. We always listened to the John Gambling morning show on WOR and the evening news with Walter Winchell on our small kitchen radio on top of the refrigerator. I even had a small radio for my own bedroom to listen to “The Shadow Knows” and all those other mystery shows. I could only imagine what those people were like on the radio. However, my mother had a few miscarriages. I remember my Aunt Kate, her sister from the Bronx, coming to take care of me. My mother and father did not want me to grow up as an only child. Thus, I got two foster brothers, John and Jerry Mingin, for the rest of my life. I started school when I was 5 as a kindergartener at Washington Grade School on Roosevelt Ave. When all the other kids were crying, I loved school and climbing the Monkey Bars. We went to Sacred Heart Church every Sunday, which was a Slovak parish, with the Mass in Latin and the sermon in Slovak. I did not understand either, but I loved it anyway. However, we went to St. Joseph’s school and church, that was farther away, when my brother Johnny was caught by a truant officer skipping school. Then Jerry, my younger brother, got Polio. Thus, my older brother Johnny and I were quarantined to the house for a month. My father felt sorry for us, so that he bought us one of those new-fangled Black and White TVs for our living room to replace the radio, when I was nine years old in 1948. Johnny and I were the shoe-shine boys on weekend evenings outside the many saloons on Roosevelt Avenue. I also had a Friday afternoon newspaper delivery service of the weekly Carteret Press that cost 8 cents. Everybody gave me a dime, and said “keep the change.” I remember watching TV in the store windows before we got one of our own at home. In those post-WWII days, everyone was happy because the war was over. We rode out bikes to St. Joseph’s grammar school that was about a mile from our house. We played on the street in front of our house on Railroad Avenue with the Sam Chodosh Oil and Coal Company at the bottom of our dead-end sloped street. Across from our house was a railroad track with railroad trains in the morning and evening. What do you remember about growing up as a grade school kid?
The 1990s
Just like that, I have arrived at 1990. Where did all those years go? I was over fifty, with no doubt that I was middle-aged. Even if I were to live to be 100, I was past the midpoint at 51. What happened to all those years that I left behind? What happened to all those people I said “hello” and “goodbye” to? Originally, there were the childhood years of the 1940s, from my birth to my two Irish-born parents in the Bronx, New York City, to Perth Amboy and Carteret, New Jersey, where I grew up. The “Happy Days” of high school was the time when everyone liked Ike, in the 1950s. Those USA rebellious 1960s was when I spent most of my time as a Servite studying in Europe to get a PhD. However, in the 1970s, I got married, started to raise a family, bought a house in a south Chicago suburb, and tried new things while getting my MBA. The 1980s were my settling down years as the Cold War ended in 1989. I was ready for the 1990s. Would I even make it to the twenty-first century? I had already lived past George Orwell’s 1984, when people often wondered what it would be like. Little did I realize then in my fifties that I would live into my eighties. Time has a way of changing things, yet some things remained the same, while other things changed a lot. I was surprised by the Xerox machine, fax machines, and computers. Was it me or the world around me that was changing? I guess that we are like the frog in the warm water that boils, because we never notice the change until we look back to try and explain it. When did the water start to boil? I realized that I had changed, but the world around me had also changed. It was not an either/or. It was both. For many people, half a century is a lifetime, but for me, it was only the start. Thus, I am going to do a quick summary about my first fifty years. What do think about when people talk about the 1990s?
TV in 1989
The Karen Carpenter Story, a made-for-TV biographical film, was the third highest rated program on any network during the 1980s. Pat Sajak quit the daytime version of the series “Wheel of Fortune” for a CBS late night talk show, while remaining host of the nighttime version. Super Bowl XXIII was the last outdoor Super Bowl to start earlier than 6 PM EST, as there was renewed interest in the halftime show that was called, “Be Bop Bamboozled in 3-D.” On the NBC sitcom “Day by Day,” six cast members from “The Brady Bunch” reunited. The successful four-part Western miniseries “Lonesome Dove” aired on CBS. The second edition of the WWF prime-time series “The Main Event” aired on NBC, with 19.9 million viewers. The first ever “Wayne’s World” sketch featuring Mike Myers and Dana Carvey appeared on NBC’s SNL. NBC broadcast SNL’s 15th anniversary special. Return of the Jedi made its network broadcast television premiere on NBC. Top Gun also made its broadcast network television debut on NBC. Ferris Bueller’s Day Off appeared on network TV as well as Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom made its network broadcast television debut on ABC. For the first time since 1973, NBC reran the 1960 telecast of “Peter Pan,” with Mary Martin in the title role. The 61st Academy Awards ceremony was broadcast on ABC, but despite the best Nielsen ratings in five years, it proved to be a career disaster for producer Allan Carr. Nickelodeon celebrated its tenth anniversary. The Bionic Showdown between the Six Million Dollar Man and the Bionic Woman was broadcast on NBC. Contestant Diane Landry won an accumulated $129,370 cash & prizes over three episodes of “Wheel of Fortune,” which at that time set an all-time winnings record for the show. Jane Pauley announced that she would be stepping down as co-anchor of NBC’s Today, after 13 years. Deborah Norville was immediately announced as Pauley’s successor. Michael Jackson made a surprise appearance on “The Arsenio Hall Show” during Hall’s interview with Eddie Murphy. The following shows premiered in 1989: “The Simpsons,” “Seinfeld,” “The Arsenio Hall Show,” “Father Dowling Mysteries,” “Dolphin Cove,” “Coach,” “COPS,” “The Jim Henson Hour,” “Rescue 911,” “Saved by the Bell,” “The Joan Rivers Show,” “Doogie Howser, MD,” “Baywatch,” “Family Matters,” and “America’s Funniest Home Videos.” The following shows left the network airways: “Webster,” “Sale of the Century,” “Super Password,” “Dynasty,” “Family Ties,” “Miami Vice,” “Moonlighting,” “The Gong Show,” “Kate & Allie,” “Hollywood Squares,” “Highway to Heaven,” “The Equalizer,” “The Dating Game,” “The Super Mario Bros. Super Show!” “Top of the Hill,” “The Smurfs,” “MLB on NBC” since 1947, and the long running “American Bandstand,” since 1952. SportsChannel America aired the first of four consecutive Stanley Cup Finals, as the NBA on TNT debuted. Vin Scully broadcast 23 innings in one day in two different cities. Former President Ronald Reagan joined NBC’s Vin Scully for the 1st inning of the MLB All-Star Game. NBA and NBC reached an agreement on a four-year, $600 million contract, ending CBS’ tenure with the NBA after 17 years. CBS won the rights to broadcast the 1994 Winter Olympics from Lillehammer, Norway after bidding $300 million. What do you remember about TV in 1989?
Music in 1989
The 31st Annual Grammy Awards were presented in Los Angeles, hosted by Billy Crystal. George Michael’s Faith won Album of the Year, while Bobby McFerrin’s “Don’t Worry, Be Happy” won both Record of the Year and Song of the Year. Tracy Chapman won Best New Artist. Madonna’s “Like a Prayer” music video, attracted criticism for its use of Catholic Church iconography and cross burning imagery, but also praise for its interpretation of discrimination, rape, and faith. Madonna gave a risqué performance at the 1989 MTV Video Music Awards by simulating masturbation. Michael Jackson ended the “Bad World Tour” in LA, and was named “King of Pop” after receiving the Soul Train Heritage Award. Paul McCartney released Back in the USSR. The Moscow Music Peace Festival was held in the Soviet Union. James Brown was sentenced in Georgia, to six years in jail. Roy Orbison joined Elvis Presley as the only singers to ever simultaneously have two top 5 albums on the Billboard charts. The 34th annual Eurovision Song Contest was won by Yugoslavian band Riva, with the song “Rock Me”. Former Beatle Ringo Starr formed his own band named Ringo Starr & His All-Starr Band. The Bee Gees performed in the USA for the first time in 10 years. N.W.A was the first gangsta rap group to sell 1,000,000 copies of an album Straight Outta Compton. However, Ice Cube left N.W.A after financial problems and several conflicts with their manager Jerry Heller. The swing revival was generally agreed upon to have begun in 1989. Some songs that I heard in 1989 were: “Like a Prayer” and “Express Yourself” by Madonna; “Another Day in Paradise” by Phil Collins; “All I Want Is You” by U2; “All She Wants Is” by Duran Duran; “Baby Don’t Forget My Number”and “Blame It on the Rain” by Milli Vanilli; “The Best” and “I Don’t Wanna Lose You” by Tina Turner; “The Best of Me” and “I Just Don’t Have the Heart” by Cliff Richard; “Crying in the Chapel” by Peter Blakeley; “Do They Know It’s Christmas?” by Band Aid II; “Don’t Close Your Eyes” by Kix; “Don’t Wanna Lose You” by Gloria Estefan; “The End of the Innocence” by Don Henley; “Every Little Step” by Bobby Brown, “Forever Your Girl” by Paula Abdul; “Free Fallin” by Tom Petty; “Have I Told You Lately” by Van Morrison; “I Feel the Earth Move” by Martika; “I Want It All” by Queen; “I Want That Man” by Deborah Harry; “I’ll Be Loving You (Forever)” by the New Kids on the Block; “I’ll Be There for You” by Bon Jovi; “If I Could Turn Back Time” by Cher; “If Tomorrow Never Comes” by Garth Brooks; “In Private” by Dusty Springfield; “When the Night Comes” by Joe Cocker; “Wild Thing” by Tone Loc; “If I Ever Fall in Love Again” by Anne Murray; and “We Didn’t Start the Fire” by Billy Joel. What was your favorite song of 1989?
Movies in 1989
Some of my favorite movies of 1989 were Sean Connery and Harrison Ford, in Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade directed by Steven Spielberg; Robin Williams in Dead Poets Society; Jack Nicholson and Michael Keaton in Batman directed by Tim Burton; Jodi Benson in The Little Mermaid; Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal in When Harry Met Sally directed by Rob Reiner; Matthew Broderick in Glory; Chevy Chase in National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation; Mel Gibson and Danny Glover in Lethal Weapon 2; Kevin Costner in Field of Dreams; Spike Lee and Danny Aiello, in Do the Right Thing; Morgan Freeman and Jessica Tandy in Driving Miss Daisy; My Left Foot with Daniel Day-Lewis; Tom Cruise in Born on the Fourth of July directed by Oliver Stone; Dan Aykroyd, Bill Murray, Harold Ramis, and Ernie Hudson in Ghostbusters II; Macaulay Culkin, Gaby Hoffmann, and John Candy in Uncle Buck; Charlie Sheen, Tom Berenger, and Corbin Bernsen in Major League; Julia Roberts, Sally Field, Daryl Hannah, Shirley MacLaine, Dolly Parton, and Olympia Dukakis in Steel Magnolias; Andie MacDowell, Laura San Giacomo, and James Spader in Sex, Lies, and Videotape; Kenneth Branagh in Henry V; Steve Martin, Keanu Reeves, Martha Plimpton, Rick Moranis, Jason Robards, Dianne Wiest, and Mary Steenburgen in Parenthood; Rick Moranis and Thomas Wilson Brown in Honey, I Shrunk the Kids; Roger & Me directed by Michael Moore; Michael Douglas, Danny DeVito, and Kathleen Turner in The War of the Roses; Tango & Cash starring Sylvester Stallone, Kurt Russell, and Teri Hatcher; Gene Wilder and Richard Pryor in See No Evil, Hear No Evil; Patrick Swayze and Kelly Lynch in Road House; Al Pacino and Ellen Barkin in Sea of Love; and Michael Douglas in Black Rain directed by Ridley Scott. Obviously, I liked some better than others, but I got to see a lot of movies this year. What is your favorite movie of 1989?
The Academy Awards in 1989
The 61st Academy Awards were held at the Shrine Auditorium in Los Angeles, with Rain Man winning Best Picture, and Jodie Foster winning her first award for Best Actress on March 29, 1989, for her role in Accused. Rain Man won four awards. Other winners included Who Framed Roger Rabbit also with four awards, Dangerous Liaisons with three, and The Accused, The Accidental Tourist, A Fish Called Wanda, The Appointments of Dennis Jennings, Beetlejuice, Bird, Hôtel Terminus: The Life and Times of Klaus Barbie, The Milagro Beanfield War, Mississippi Burning, Pelle the Conqueror, Tin Toy, Working Girl, and You Don’t Have to Die with one award each. The telecast drew over 42 million viewers in the USA, making it the most-viewed ceremony up to that point, until it was surpassed by the 70th Academy Awards in 1998, which garnered a viewership of over 57 million. The telecast was also remembered for being the final public appearance of actress and comedian Lucille Ball, where she and co-presenter Bob Hope were given a standing ovation. Best Actor winner Dustin Hoffman for Rain Man was the fifth person to win this category twice. Sigourney Weaver became the fifth performer to receive two acting nominations in the same year, but she did not win in either category. John Lasseter and William Reeves won Best Animated Short Film for Tin Toy, which was Pixar’s first Oscar ever and the first CGI film to win an Oscar. Barry Levinson won Best Director for Rain Man. Kevin Kline won Best Supporting Actor for a A Fish Called Wanda, and Geena Davis won Best Supporting Actress in The Accidental Tourist. Carly Simon won Best Original Song for “Let the River Run” from Working Girl. There was some dispute about the show and the opening sequence with no hosts. What do you remember about the 1989 Academy Awards?
Sports in 1989
In Super Bowl XXIII, the San Francisco 49ers won 20–16 over the Cincinnati Bengals in Miami, as the MVP was Giants WR Jerry Rice, but QB Joe Montana led a last-minute comeback. In the NCAA football season, the Notre Dame Fighting Irish won 34-21 over the West Virginia Mountaineers to win the national championship at the Fiesta Bowl. In 1989 baseball, one-handed pitcher Jim Abbott made his major-league debut with the California Angels, without spending a single day in the minor leagues, ending up with a 12–12 record. Following an investigation that he gambled on baseball, superstar player Pete Rose was banned from baseball for life. In the World Series, the Oakland Athletics won 4 games to 0 over the San Francisco Giants with the MVP A’s pitcher Dave Stewart. However, the World Series was delayed for ten days because of the 1989 Loma Prieta earthquake that I remember watching on TV, while it happened. The Hillsborough disaster was one of the biggest tragedies in European soccer, claiming the lives of 94 Liverpool F.C. supporters in Sheffield, England, with a further three dying later. In the NCAA Men’s Basketball Championship, Michigan won its first title, with a 80–79 win over Seton Hall in overtime, with Glen Rice the MVP. In the NBA Finals, the Detroit Pistons won 4 games to 0 over the Los Angeles Lakers to win the franchise’s first championship, led by coach Chuck Daly over Pat Riley, with four LA Hall of Famers against Detroit Pistons leaders Isaiah Thomas, Dennis Rodman, and Joe Dumars, the MVP. Greg LeMond of the USA won the Tour de France. In golf, there was no grand slam winner as it was split between, Nick Faldo, Curtis Strange, Mark Calcavecchia, and Payne Stewart. The PGA Tour money leader was Tom Kite with $1,395,278. Bob Charles was the Senior PGA money winner with $725,887. The LPGA Tour money leader was Betsy King with $654,132. Sunday Silence won two of the three Triple Crown Races. The Art Ross Trophy as the NHL’s leading scorer during the regular season was Mario Lemieux, of the Pittsburgh Penguins. The Hart Memorial Trophy for the NHL’s Most Valuable Player was Wayne Gretzky, Los Angeles Kings. The Calgary Flames won 4 games to 2 over the Montreal Canadiens, the only time that a visiting team won the Stanley Cup at the Montreal Forum against the Canadiens. In March, St. Louis Blues’ Steve Tuttle accidently slit the jugular vein of Buffalo Sabres’ goaltender Clint Malarchuk, with a total of 300 stitches needed to close the wound. In the Grand Slam in tennis, Boris Becker won two events, while Ivan Lendl and Michael Chang won the other two. In women’s tennis, Steffi Graf took three of the four events with the French Open going to Arantxa Sánchez Vicario. The AP Male Athlete of the Year was Joe Montana, of the NFL Giants. The AP Female Athlete of the Year was Steffi Graf in Tennis. The AP Male Athlete of the Decade was Wayne Gretzky of the NHL. What sports event do you remember from 1989?
Famous people who died in 1989
These famous people died in 1989: Ted Bundy (1946-1989) an American serial killer; Lucille Ball (1911-1989) an American actress, comedian, model, studio executive, and producer; Salvador Dalí (1904-1989) a Spanish surrealist artist; Ferdinand Marcos (1917-1989) a Filipino dictator politician; Hirohito (1901-1989) 124th emperor of Japan; Bette Davis (1908-1989) an American actress for 50 years; Abbie Hoffman (1936-1989) an American political and social activist; Gilda Radner (1946-1989) an American actress and SNL comedian; Lee Van Cleef (1925-1989) an American actor; Andrei Sakharov (1921-1989) Nobel laureate Russian nuclear physicist; Graham Chapman (1941-1989) an English comedian, writer, actor, and author of Monty Python; Huey P. Newton (1942-1989) an African-American revolutionary co-founded the Black Panther Party; Sugar Ray Robinson (1921-1989) an American professional middleweight boxer; Laurence Olivier (1907-1989) an English actor and director; Mel Blanc (1908-1989) an American voice actor and radio personality; John Cassavetes (1929-1989) an American actor, film director, and screenwriter; Sergio Leone (1929-1989) an Italian film director, producer and screenwriter; Steve Rubell (1943-1989) co-owner of the New York disco Studio 54; Jock Mahoney (1919-1989) an American actor and stuntman; Joseph Alsop (1898-1989) an American journalist and syndicated newspaper columnist; Jim Backus (1913-1989) an American actor; Fernando Martín (1962-1989) one of the best Spanish basketball players ever; Lane Frost (1963-1989) an American professional rodeo cowboy; Robert Mapplethorpe (1946-1989) an American black-and-white photographer; John Matuszak (1950-1989) an American football player and actor; Keith Whitley (1970-1989) an American country music singer; Billy Martin (1928-1989) an American MLB Yankee second baseman and manager; William Shockley (1910-1989) an American physicist and inventor of semi-conductors; Andrei Gromyko (1898-1989) a Soviet Belarusian communist politician and diplomat; Vladimir Horowitz (1903-1989) a Russian-born, American, classical pianist and composer; George William Weidler (1926-1989) an American saxophonist and songwriter; Christine Jorgensen (1926-1989) first well-known American transgender woman; Irving Berlin (1888-1989) an American composer and lyricist, one of the greatest songwriters in American history; William Stephenson (1987-1989) Intrepid in WWII, inspirations for James Bond character; Janet Norton Lee Auchincloss (1907-1989) mother of the former First Lady Jacqueline Kennedy; Samuel Beckett (1906-1989) an Irish novelist, playwright, short story writer; Gerhard Schröder (1910-1989) a West German politician; Oonah Keogh (1903-1989) an Irish woman who became the first woman to join the Dublin Stock Exchange in 1925; Pérez Prado (1916-1989) a Cuban bandleader, pianist, composer and arranger who popularized the mambo in the 1950s; and Victor French (1934-1989) American actor and director. Do you know anyone who died in 1989?